Tuesday, November 24, 2009

The society lets oneself be happy

The society lets oneself be happy
To a person, happy work is successful life, so everyone will wish eagerly the possession that there can be more oneself is happy, but it is not what everybody can have to be happy, then some people begin to blame the worried people of it, blame Heaven not to have partiality for oneself, much Jie of strange destiny, complains the undertaking is not obeyed, the family does not get along well   In fact all these are not your unhappy decisive factor, really decide a happy or not one of yours is only yourself!

It is actually a kind of mental state that the society lets oneself be happy, a kind of state of mind. Release from your heart happily, you can create one at any time ” I am very happy ” Mental state,it take most people how it is the happy,how happy is it. How could make us get happily?

Smile: If you have been making one’s own mood in the low state all the time, for example you have flagging shoulder, walk both legs seem to be very heavy and heavy, then you will really think mood very bad. You if a face cry for the looks, nobody would like to show interest in you. Then how to change? Very simple, you only suck the tone deeply, raise one’s head and straighten the chest, smile on the face, just show the posture full of life and energy. Will infect to smile and yawn too, if you sincerely smile at a person’s exhibition color, he is really unable to be angry with you.

Relax: The happy person always says to oneself like this: I feel happy, I will do better and better in various fields, I will be happier and happier. You say some words to oneself repeatedly, if ” I relax very much ” , ” I am very calm “  Wait a moment, the words will be entered in your subconscious if time is long.

It is interesting to recall: Now, we come to try to have fantasies of the happy psychological picture together. First of all, relax your chin, lift your cheek, open your lip, tilt your corner of the mouth upwards, say to oneself “  Recall some anecdotes “  . The happy picture, broadcast oneself like a telefilm, this is a happy psychological picture law.

Speak loudly: The voice is obviously tiny that spoken by the person who is constrained, display so that self-confidence is insufficient, unhappy too at one o’clock. So you should try hard to improve your volume, but needn’t shout at others. You only need make the sound slightly louder than usual consciously.

Resume and square one’s shoulders: You observe, can find those attack, walk person that others repel dilatory to draw very much sluggish carefully, seem very slovenly, totally confident. Another kind of people demonstrate extreme confidence, they walk faster than common people, as if in the dash. Resume and square one’s shoulders and walk a bit faster, you will feel happy and grow.

Utilize one’s own advantage: If someone tells you: ” you are very sociable on the phone “  . You think this is nothing. But should know, a lot of people feel that it is very difficult to do so, so this is really your advantage worthy to be proud. The happy source is a real advantage found and utilized you, this makes your ego consciousness brighter, just the happier you are.

Share: A person asks God: “Why people of paradise happy, but person of hell? ” Then God brings him to the hell, he sees a lot of people sit around before a cauldron, boiling the delicious food in the pan, but everybody is hungry and disappointed, because the ladle in their hand is too long, it is unable to send the food to one’s own mouth. Then, they come to the paradise again, the ladle here is very long too, but people have sent the food to others’ mouth with the ladle. Can enable and stay to share happiness happily forever with others.

Feel grateful: If you can learn to feel grateful, it is angry to reduce a lot of, you only feel grateful, will really stand up happily; If a person only blames the rancour, your mood stands up very naturally. A word is spoken well: The ones that thought stored the thanks. The heart feeling grateful will open the happy miracle for you.

These that say above it accomplishes to be impossible certainly, you can come slowly, that should be able to be accomplished. Can determine you your own psychology, psychology of adjusting, you have chosen happily, happy! It is believed that you hope too you can find one’s own happiness finally.

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Can you wait a moment?

Can you wait a moment?
I once ever listened to one about Tibet lama’s legend beautiful.

Enclose it while fighting in once, when a soldier is just killing an old lama with the rifle, the lama says to that soldier: “Can you wait a moment? ”

“Morning and evening die too, why wait? ” That soldier says.

His words have not been finished yet, the lama has already risen to the sky, has flown into several Zhangs, fall again in a twinkling, unexpectedly crossed legs and sat while falling, he had already entered the deep meditation to make originally, the god knew and broke away from but nirvana. His canthus hangs a drop of sparkling and crystal-clear tears.

Why did the lama pass away in a sitting posture in the twinkling of an eye?

Recorded in Sutras, killing the person who appears Buddha’s body blood, arhats of A, should all sink into the hell continuously originally, the lama sad and pityful to want little soldier to murder him, for exempt he make down the evil industry, would rather finish one’s own this life ahead of time. The tears of that canthus are exactly the most beautiful dewdrop on the lotus flower.

Remember, listen to the story for the first time, I too dangerous to cry by inches, soul dark one touch some unable things said to speak most.

Later each time, I meet hateful person, want thing that take offence, that mao float, get up lama jump figure got up to fly immediately, there is sad and pityful the limitless one in that shape shadow, hates deeper and movinger than all of my air.

“Can you wait a moment? ” Fill with mercily this sentence, there is no animosity or annoyed at all, you repeat once gently, expect scene feeling want one that cry incomparably calm soft tone then then. In this world, what is there the thing that can take offence? In this world, is there any hateful person? So long as we make a peace and quiet lotus, often hang the sad and pityful and sparkling and crystal-clear dew, what mud can dyeing us?

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Monday, February 16, 2009

Multiple-choice question of the love

Multiple-choice question of the love
Listening to a friend talking about the thing of a good friend of hers before Valentine’s Day, that friend of hers was called An Qi. Angel says Angel is in the crossroad of life. The incumbent Nan’s friend has already tried to win sb.’s favor the wedding is given up, going to propose formally in two days; Just at this moment, the former boyfriend saying good-bye for nearly one year comes again, hope to get togather again.
Angel is because all sorts of external reasons said good-bye to former boyfriend, obviously had certain emotional foundations between two people. Looking from the friend’s oral account, the incumbent boyfriend is very good too to her, two boyfriends have their own strong points each. Such as a personality being better, know how to care about people, enterprising, but the family background is slightly bad, and the working treatment is not high at present, but the former boyfriend works well, the education are high, and parents are very rich.
An Qi says: In this case, I do not know how to choose, do not know with what standard to judge, every one of person accompanied together on the endless way of life is more suitable. Is it the individual character, an emotion or money? But this is a thing that must be determined in a few days.
It talks about to be really words, how long long judgement that still can’t be made even Angel get along, I impossible only according to to tell, can help her produce good idea friend. I just tell her, may decide the thing of destiny in all one’s life as to one, only consider and make a decision for oneself several days, rather hurried. And does not talk about the great event in one’s life like this of marriage, even the choice of a trifle thing, it is better to reply calmly too. As to the present choice, if can not make a decision for the moment, there is no harm in looking for a reason to delay, success will come after conditons are ripe will choose correctly.
In fact, everybody faces choosing frequently in life, there is major issue that has minor matters, so small that buys the clothes, is even as big as the marriage of hunting for a job. Unless it do it in this way or not do it in that way, who who be the light the serious,whose profit whose fraud,need weigh. Choose to draw the lesson at the worst, has chosen by mistake on the major issue by mistake on the minor matter, may bring disaster to it all the life.
I mean how many days Angel wants for oneself for time to choose. Can’t make a decision for the moment, can wait.
I let the friend say to Angel, several years ago, a friend obsessed with the calligraphy found me, he impatient every day machinery mechanical office life, think it is probably bunch very for body and mind not to receive. He asks: Can resign now, practise calligraphy is diligent to big goal of calligraphist physically and mentally?
I say to this friend: This question wants oneself to answer after all. When you asked like this, indicated you were still hesitating, can not make a decision.
This friend says: So long as grit one’s teeth, can make a decision.
I say: You must see and care for oneself. You have already got married, there are children, need to support one’s parents, if resign, by what will you and your family come to support the family? Moreover the calligraphist can’t act as as one wishes either, besides individual being diligent, also there are natural gift and opportunity. When all these practical problems have not been solved, how to make a decision? You ask me at this moment, how do I help you to make a decision?
So every could grit one’s teeth resolution under so determined, success will come after conditons are ripe, thing on problems can easily be solved when the conditions are ripe. The strong melon that sprains is sweetless, the melon that can be cut with the knife is not a good melon.
I let friends tell this story to Angel, a few days later, the friend tells me, this clear reason that Angel seems after finishing hearing.
Outwardly, this is a reason that can’t be more ordinary, but the real one does not make sure very easy. The ones that said are a bit more thorough, had better let nature take its course to everything in life. Like an old garment, you have not already quite liked to wear, but it is a little regrettable to throw away, one hoarse, clothes tear one hole, you can throw away it happily naturally.
On the contrary, do a thing, make a decision by oneself cherishing very contradictory psychology reluctantly, this resolution will not generally have a good result.
Heart even full of contradictions Angel force decision that oneself make when being hurried, but very difficult to be happy after marriage, every, in this case, might as well wait a moment patiently, a result naturally when publishing.
Do a thing cherishing in the very contradictory heart, make a decision by oneself reluctantly, this resolution will not generally have a good result. Friends, and a proper and suitable one is the best if let nature take its course. Happiness, happiness, healthy, safe in Valentine’s Day of all friends of blessing.  Welding Machine Pet ShopPVC HoseSqualene|Frontline Cat,Flea Medication,
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Monday, December 8, 2008

Park, think, sit dusk such as love late

 Park, think, sit dusk such as love late
I love dusk, because of the beauty at dusk – -U.S.A. is dim; U.S.A. is quiet; U.S.A. is warm; U.S.A. is in the deep love.
Park, think, sit love to be American dusk
The setting sun sets, the light breeze of the comfortable body that I am taking a shower, come on a high slope, sit on the ground, watching the strong beautiful scenery color that the sun sets silently.
I at this moment, ” setting sun bright cloud is accompanied, return westwards joyfully ” for that The calm and not recall with deep feeling,not at the same time until ” whether half river a rustle half river is the red ” Beautiful cheer. Immediately until ” whether the setting sun limitlessly good, just close dusk ” And feel dejected – -It is dark to bring at dusk, left the brightness; It signifies again the life is close to declining years, there are not many futures, spreads the melancholy ambience of one layer for somebody’s mind.
However, think better of and think, make people sad and sad at dusk? Ask, I seem to suddenly see the light through the button of soul. In fact, offer people dusk but purpose sad and dreary, and sad and dreary ¡Ù is sad, ¡Ù is terrible or ominous even more, pouring can be interpreted as the solemn and stirring heart condition, the measuring of a section of hearts way, a brilliant work that vicissitudes developed.
Remember at one book seeing, before the half a century, Bing Xin old man translate one English short into Chinese: “Wish your life to have more cloud Yi, for a dusk beautiful. ” This language of translating, once let Bing Xin of the people in middle age shake enormously, it is extremely deep to experience. And old man of Bing Xin of that year and I at this moment have resonance on soul really   
Think room, the setting sun say good-bye to remotest places already, but I want, leave away, wish eagerly, appreciate view for dusk – –
Really not false, it is really beautiful at dusk.
U.S.A. is dim. It is moment dusk, focus one’s attention upon the west, seem to hang the freehand brushwork in traditional Chinese painting of jumbo water colour in the remotest places, make people intoxicated. The morning glow is a pet of the light of the setting sun forever, it is under mother’s care, the beautiful color clothing in riotous profusion is being wrapped, sing merrily and dance gracefully in the remotest places, fluctuate at will, will perform and dye as the meaningful empty fairy just like that of the lyric at golden dusk, as misty and dim as fond dream at night.
U.S.A. is quiet. With the going and living in seclusion of morning glow, it grows dark slowly, the night comes slowly, the stars in the remotest places come on stage with glittering appearance in succession, collude in the curved moon and hang upside down in the tree-top. Noisy noise, make noise and not in great numbers to make a noise, follow far gradually, bring very safe to come to human world with smile while being American while being quiet dusk, fulfil for daytime and mission of handing over at night calmly.
U.S.A. is warm. The inning of evening mist, the night shrouds. At this moment, it is driven that the chiken and duck enters, the bird goes back to the nest. The prospect of a city in the evening is bright, the late smoke from kitchen chimneys flies and curls upwards. In a hurry to depart people that go home, sumptuous dining table steaming hot, grandma draw Sun man other woman express concern for cordial, great grand father kind eyebrow kind eyes clear to light every relative, mother call whole family grown-ups and children hold dinner ardent, what is seen and heard of one day that my father talks and laughs humorously.
U.S.A. is in the deep love. “Courtyard people return at dusk, the romantic love come in succession. ” All over the world, there is history so far, after hundreds and thousands of pairs of lovers make an appointment in dusk. Composed and born to move the touching note by those exceedingly sentimental love stories with the affectionate brush stroke in Chinese painting and calligraphy at dusk beautiful.
Beauty for dusk, return U.S.A. to be ripe beautiful and old and sincere beautiful and quiet beautiful and peaceful   How similar it is at it and life’s dusk!
I love dusk, because is beautiful at dusk.
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